Hollywood loves secrecy like it loves a dramatic remix drop. Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco somehow orchestrated a wedding that was equal parts ocean side fairytale and whisper-level clandestine. A handful of friends knew, the paparazzi knew nothing, and the internet collectively lost its mind hours later. But behind the waves and the sunset filters, an unexpected twist awaited: the friend who led the vows would shock anyone keeping score.

While love and music harmonized under the Santa Barbara sun, the true headline was not the rings but the ringside officiant turning ceremony expectations upside down.

Benny Blanco and ZLil Dicky appeared on Jimmy Kimmel Live! to promote their new podcast, Friends Keep Secrets. Blanco shared on the show that rapper Lil Dicky, born David Burd, officiated the ultra-private wedding on September 27, 2025. Blanco raved that Burd’s speech was incredible, blending wit and heartfelt moments.

Gomez had requested that certain topics be avoided, guarding the intimacy of her vows. Even with the opening three minutes adjusted, Blanco recalled that the ceremony really turned out great, capturing laughter and the chemistry that radiated from the couple.

"She said, ‘Hey, just make sure Dave doesn’t say anything about this part or this part because it’s part of my speech,. And that was the whole opening three minutes of his speech,” Blanco said.

The wedding sparkled with personal, playful touches that showcased the tight-knit friendship. Blanco and Burd, both newly married, exchanged tips and gestures, turning their involvement into a collaborative celebration. While Blanco did not officiate Burd’s wedding, he delivered a heartfelt, humorous speech, famously barefoot on a checkered dance floor, highlighting the shared history among friends.

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While friendship orchestrated the wedding magic and barefoot speeches stole the spotlight, the story of unwavering support and playful admiration was just beginning to unfold behind the scenes.

Taylor Swift has remained a cornerstone in Gomez and Blanco’s relationship, their bond stretching back nearly two decades. From engagement celebrations in December 2024 to playful gestures, she signaled her approval at every milestone.

A sourdough loaf in 2025, punning “Loaf Story” on 'Love Story,' exemplified Swift’s combination of humor and genuine admiration. Her praise for their joint album 'I Said I Love You First' cemented her status as both friend and cheerleader, blending personal support with cultural relevance.

At the September 2025 wedding, Swift shared the spotlight with Ed Sheeran, delivering a speech that elevated the oceanside ceremony. Beyond public celebrations, Gomez credited Swift with life and relationship guidance, such as: “If you are the smartest person in the room, you are in the wrong room,” advice that helped Gomez navigate her inner circle.

Swift’s presence, mentorship, and thoughtful encouragement consistently underscored her warm embrace of Blanco, reinforcing that the couple’s union was joyfully celebrated by hearts, minds, and history alike.

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What are your thoughts on Lil Dicky officiating Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s wedding, and Taylor Swift’s iconic support? Let us know in the comments.