Who Is Mariska Hargitay Married To? Husband, Kids and All About the Life of the Emmy Winner, Host

Published 09/13/2026, 4:19 PM CDT

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Mariska Hargitay has reached another remarkable chapter in her television career as she prepares to host the 78th Emmy Awards on September 14, 2026, live from the Peacock Theater in Los Angeles. The Law & Order: SVU star will lead the ceremony on NBC and Peacock at 8 p.m. ET, bringing her long relationship with the network into the awards-show spotlight. She has spent years moving between acting, directing, advocacy, and personal storytelling, with her 2025 documentary My Mom Jayne bringing another deeply personal part of her life into public view. 

But behind the television icon is a much more intimate story, shaped by an extraordinary family history, a decades-long marriage, and three children who have grown up away from the usual Hollywood glare.

Who is Mariska Hargitay married to?

Mariska Hargitay is married to actor Peter Hermann, whom she met in a rather fitting place: the set of Law & Order. Hermann appeared on the series as defense attorney Trevor Langan, and the two met in 2002. Their relationship moved beyond the procedural's familiar courtroom corridors, and they married on August 28, 2004, in Santa Barbara. More than two decades later, their marriage remains one of the quieter enduring relationships in television. 

Hermann is an actor and writer who has appeared in shows including Younger and Blue Bloods, while also becoming a children's book author. That shared understanding of the entertainment business has given the couple something unusual in Hollywood. Hargitay and Hermann have also spoken about communication, curiosity, and listening as important parts of keeping their relationship strong. 

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 Speaking to E! News in June 2026, she described their approach as “disciplined curiosity.”

“Really being curious about the other person and how they experience something and really listening…if there is ever a disagreement or argument or we get scared or tight, I know that he will always think about it or think about what I said,” Hargitay shared.

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The couple's life, however, extends well beyond their Hollywood careers. Hargitay and Hermann have built a family of five, with their children becoming an important part of the private world surrounding the actress.

Who are Mariska Hargitay's kids?

Mariska Hargitay and Peter Hermann have three children. Their eldest, Miklos Friedrich Hermann, was born in 2006, while their daughter Amaya Josephine Hermann was adopted in April 2011. Their third son, Andrew Nicolas Hermann, was welcomed in 2011. The family has generally maintained a low profile, allowing the children to grow up without becoming regular fixtures of their parents' public careers.

The timing of their family story is particularly striking because Hargitay's professional life was already deeply established when she became a mother. 

By the time Miklos was born, she had already spent years as Olivia Benson, and SVU was becoming a television institution. Hargitay has discussed adoption publicly over the years, and the children have remained largely outside the celebrity-news cycle. That privacy stands in contrast to the enormous visibility surrounding their mother, particularly now that she is preparing to stand at the center of television's biggest awards ceremony. 

The family story behind the Emmy Host

Mariska Hargitay's family history is almost cinematic in its own right. She is the daughter of Hollywood star Jayne Mansfield and Hungarian-born actor and former Mr. Universe Mickey Hargitay. Her childhood was touched by enormous fame, but also by profound loss after Mansfield died in a car accident in 1967 when the Law & Order actress was only three years old.

Mickey Hargitay later helped raise her with his wife Ellen Siano, whom Peter Hargitay regarded as a mother figure. 

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That complicated family history became central to My Mom Jayne, Hargitay's deeply personal documentary about Mansfield. The film also explored a long-held family secret concerning her biological father, while Hargitay continued to describe Mickey as her true father in the emotional sense. The project transformed a piece of Hollywood history into something much more personal, giving audiences a glimpse behind the woman they have watched play Olivia Benson for more than two decades. 

Now, that same performer is stepping onto the Emmy stage. The 78th Emmy Awards will air live on NBC and stream on Peacock on September 14, placing Hargitay at the center of an evening celebrating the very medium that made her a household name.

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What do you think about Mariska Hargitay's journey from Law & Order: SVU star to Emmy host? Share your thoughts in the comments.

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Sarah Ansari is an entertainment writer at Netflix Junkie, transitioning from four years in marketing and automotive journalism to storytelling-driven pop culture coverage. With a background in English Literature and experience writing across NFL, NASCAR, and NBA verticals, she brings a research-led, narrative-focused lens to film and television. Passionate about exploring how stories are crafted and why they resonate, Sarah unwinds through sketching, swimming, motorsports—and yearly winter Harry Potter marathons.

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