For years, the relationship between Prince Harry and Prince William has been marked by a growing distance, leaving behind the close bond they once shared as brothers. After a series of events that reshaped their relationship, the two princes have remained largely estranged, with trust between them becoming one of the biggest questions surrounding the royal family. In July 2026, King Charles, who is continuing treatment for cancer, privately reunited with Prince Harry, Meghan Markle, and his grandchildren, Prince Archie and Princess Lilibet, in what was seen as a potential step toward reconciliation.

However, Prince William remained absent, choosing to maintain his distance from his younger brother. Many royal commentators have described this as a deliberate boundary to protect the future of the monarchy. But what led Prince William to lose trust in his little brother, Prince Harry, and why does their relationship remain fractured after years of conflict?

The feud started when Prince Harry’s relationship with Suits actress Meghan Markle became serious, and Prince William questioned the speed at which their romance was progressing. In his 2023 memoir Spare, named after the traditional royal phrase “the heir and the spare,” Prince Harry described how the Prince of Wales advised him not to rush into marriage after only about a year of dating. Prince Harry viewed the phrase “this girl” as dismissive and felt his brother was approaching Meghan with caution rather than acceptance.

He also wrote that he had hoped the couple could form a close “foursome” with the Prince and Princess of Wales, but felt those expectations were not shared. Tensions continued as Prince William expressed concerns about Meghan’s transition from an American actress into the highly traditional structure of the Royal Family. Prince Harry also detailed disagreements over wedding plans, including William’s opposition to Westminster Abbey or St. Paul’s Cathedral, which he believed were too grand for the couple.

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The pair married at St. George’s Chapel in Windsor. Days before the wedding, a disagreement over Princess Charlotte’s bridesmaid dress became another source of tension, with Prince Harry writing that Meghan, rather than Kate, was left in tears. By October 2018, the strain had become impossible to ignore, and the brothers began separating their royal households, splitting staff, creating separate teams, and preparing for Harry and Meghan’s move to Frogmore Cottage in Windsor.

The tension between Prince Harry and Prince William eventually reached a breaking point in 2019, when, according to Prince Harry’s account in Spare, a private argument at Nottingham Cottage, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex’s former home on the grounds of Kensington Palace, turned physical. Prince Harry wrote that the Prince of Wales arrived “piping hot” to discuss their worsening relationship and his concerns about Meghan Markle, whom he described as being called “difficult,” “rude,” and “abrasive” during the confrontation.

Prince Harry accused the Prince of Wales of repeating the media narrative rather than understanding his perspective, causing the discussion to escalate. He also claimed the confrontation moved into the kitchen, where he attempted to calm the situation by offering the Prince of Wales a glass of water. According to his account, Prince William grabbed him by the collar, ripped his necklace, and pushed him onto the floor, causing him to land on his dog’s water bowl, which broke and left scratches on his back.

Prince Harry wrote that the Prince of Wales later apologized and asked him not to tell Meghan Markle about the incident. But he said Markle eventually noticed his injuries and learned what had happened. While the account became one of the most controversial claims in Spare, sources close to the Prince of Wales have disputed the severity of the incident, maintaining that no physical assault occurred. The confrontation remains a major turning point in the already fractured relationship between the two brothers.

The confrontation at Nottingham Cottage marked the beginning of a much larger breakdown. In January 2020, tensions between Prince Harry and Prince William reached a public turning point when the Duke and Duchess of Sussex announced their decision to step back from royal duties, a move later dubbed “Megxit.” After frustrations over negotiations for a new working arrangement, Prince Harry and Meghan Markle released a statement on January 8 announcing plans to create a “progressive new role,” become financially independent, and divide their time between the United Kingdom and North America.

To address the crisis, Queen Elizabeth II summoned Prince Charles, Prince William, and Prince Harry to Sandringham House for a private family meeting on January 13, 2020. Prince Harry later described the summit in Harry & Meghan as “terrifying,” claiming that the Prince of Wales and the Prince of Wales’ father strongly opposed his proposed “half-in, half-out” arrangement, which would have allowed the Sussexes to maintain some royal duties while earning their own income. In Spare, Prince Harry wrote that the decision for their complete departure had effectively already been shaped by palace officials.

The rift deepened further after a joint statement from Prince William and Prince Harry was released denying reports that the Prince of Wales had bullied his younger brother. Prince Harry later claimed he was not consulted before his name was attached to the statement, believing the palace had prioritized protecting the future king over supporting him. By March 2020, Prince Harry and Meghan Markle had relocated to California after leaving royal duties behind, with the physical distance adding another layer to the brothers’ already fractured relationship.

The decision to step away from royal duties created physical distance between Prince Harry and Prince William, but the divide became a global public crisis after the Duke and Duchess of Sussex’s televised interview with Oprah Winfrey in March 2021. It transformed private family tensions into an international controversy, with Meghan Markle discussing the emotional toll of royal life, including her struggles with suicidal thoughts and her claim that she was denied support from the institution. The interview also included allegations of conversations within the Royal Family about the possible skin tone of their unborn child, though Prince Harry later clarified that he viewed the remarks as unconscious bias rather than outright racism.

During the interview, Prince Harry was also asked about his relationship with the Prince of Wales. He acknowledged that they were no longer close, describing their relationship as having “space” between them while expressing hope that time could heal the situation. However, the interview deeply angered Prince William, who viewed the public discussion of private family matters as a serious breach of trust. Buckingham Palace responded by stating that the concerns raised, particularly those involving race, were taken seriously, while adding that “some recollections may vary,” a phrase that suggested disagreement with parts of the account.

Days later, Prince William publicly addressed the controversy while visiting a school with Catherine, Princess of Wales. When asked if he had spoken to Prince Harry since the interview, he replied that he had not but would do so. The moment marked a major shift in their relationship, as the disagreement moved beyond private conflict and became a public battle over loyalty, trust, and the protection of the monarchy.

As the divide between Prince Harry and Prince William continued after the Oprah Winfrey interview, an unexpected moment of unity appeared following the death of Queen Elizabeth II. On September 10, 2022, just two days after the Queen’s passing, Prince William, Catherine, Princess of Wales, Prince Harry, and Meghan Markle appeared together outside Windsor Castle for a 40-minute walkabout to view floral tributes and greet mourners. The public appearance immediately drew worldwide attention, with many seeing it as a possible step toward reconciliation. However, behind the scenes, the reunion was a carefully managed display of unity during a period of national mourning.

The walkabout came together after Prince William extended a last-minute invitation to the Duke and Duchess of Sussex, who were already in the United Kingdom for planned engagements. With both couples staying close to Windsor, the Prince of Wales believed that appearing together was important to show stability and respect for the monarchy during the Queen’s mourning period. The invitation reportedly delayed the appearance by around 45 minutes as security arrangements were quickly reorganized, with all four royals eventually arriving together in the same vehicle driven by Prince William.

Despite the public smiles, the atmosphere between the couples remained tense. During the 40-minute appearance, Prince William and Catherine, Princess of Wales, focused on one side of the crowd while Prince Harry and Meghan Markle engaged with another, with little direct interaction between them. Royal author Robert Jobson later revealed that Catherine, Princess of Wales, described the walkabout as one of the hardest things she had ever done because of the level of tension surrounding the moment. The appearance became a rare instance of the four royals standing together publicly after years of division.

The release of Prince Harry’s memoir Spare on January 10, 2023, became one of the biggest breaking points in his relationship with Prince William. While earlier interviews and documentaries had revealed tensions between the brothers, the memoir exposed deeply personal details about their childhood, family dynamics, and private disagreements. In the opening pages, Prince Harry described Prince William as both “my beloved brother” and his “arch-nemesis,” explaining that the traditional “heir and spare” roles created years of competition and resentment. 

One of the most damaging aspects for Prince William was Prince Harry’s decision to include private exchanges between Catherine, Princess of Wales, and Meghan Markle regarding Princess Charlotte’s bridesmaid dress before the 2018 wedding. The memoir published details of their text messages, including disagreements over the fit of the dresses, exposing a private family dispute to a global audience. Prince Harry also made personal criticisms of Prince William, including comments about his appearance, revisited the controversy surrounding the Nazi costume incident, and described a disagreement over keeping his beard for his wedding, which required approval from Queen Elizabeth II.

Following the memoir’s publication, Prince William and Catherine, Princess of Wales, maintained the Royal Family’s traditional silence, refusing to publicly respond. However, reports suggested that Prince William felt deeply hurt and betrayed by the exposure of private family matters. For the Prince of Wales, the issue was no longer just a disagreement between brothers but a question of trust. The publication of Spare reportedly reinforced the belief that private conversations could eventually become public, creating a lasting boundary between the two brothers.

Years after Prince Harry and Prince William’s relationship reached its lowest point, King Charles’ private reunion with Prince Harry, Meghan Markle, Prince Archie, and Princess Lilibet suggested a possible step toward healing. However, Prince William remains distant from his brother, leaving their fractured relationship unresolved despite efforts to rebuild family ties.

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