Are Cailee Spaeny and Drew Starkey Dating? Find Out if Fiction Is Imitating Reality

Published 10/02/2026, 4:46 PM CDT

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Cailee Spaeny and Drew Starkey already have the kind of screen pairing that invites a little extra scrutiny. The two rising actors star together in A24’s Deep Cuts, playing music obsessed young adults whose relationship sits at the center of the story. Now, after the pair were reportedly spotted holding hands in Los Angeles, the line between their onscreen romance and real life has become considerably blurrier.

Hollywood has always had a weakness for this particular plot twist. Actors spend months learning each other’s rhythms, selling intimacy under carefully placed lighting, then emerge from the set with fans studying every shared glance like it is a deleted scene. 

So, is Deep Cuts becoming one of those cases where fiction starts borrowing from reality?

Are Cailee Spaeny and Drew Starkey actually dating?

For now, there is no official confirmation that Cailee Spaeny and Drew Starkey are a couple. However, recent photographs circulating online have given the rumor cycle considerably more fuel. Just Jared reported on the Los Angeles sighting, while photos shared by DeuxMoi appear to show the actors spending time together and holding hands. That is enough for the internet to start connecting dots, but it is still not the same thing as either actor publicly confirming a relationship.

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The timing is what makes the speculation particularly irresistible. Spaeny and Starkey are not simply two actors who happened to cross paths at an industry party. They spent months working opposite each other on Deep Cuts, Sean Durkin’s adaptation of Holly Brickley’s novel. That gives the current speculation an unusually neat Hollywood narrative: they were hired to play lovers, spent months building that dynamic for the camera, and are now being photographed together.

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But there is another layer to this story, because both actors are moving through careers that are getting considerably busier. A public outing together could simply be personal, but when two actors with multiple projects in motion suddenly appear together, Hollywood watchers inevitably start asking whether there is another professional reason behind it.

Could their latest sighting be about another project?

There is another wrinkle worth watching before turning the rumor into a Hollywood fact. Deep Cuts is already a major collaboration for the pair, and the production brought together a particularly interesting group of young actors, including Cailee Spaeny, Drew Starkey, Ariela Barer and Quintessa Swindell. The film is directed by Durkin, whose work tends to lean into complicated emotional dynamics rather than glossy romantic shorthand.

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It is also worth remembering how quickly Spaeny’s career has accelerated. After her breakout in Pacific Rim Uprising, she moved through Bad Times at the El Royale, Priscilla, Civil War and Alien: Romulus, while Beef gave her another high-profile television showcase. Starkey, meanwhile, has moved from Outer Banks into projects including Queer, Onslaught and Apple TV+’s Lucky. Their careers are both hitting a particularly busy stretch, which makes another professional collaboration entirely possible, although there is currently no confirmed report that their Los Angeles outing was connected to one.

For now, Deep Cuts remains the only confirmed romantic pairing between them. Whether the latest sighting represents a real relationship or simply two costars who became close while making a movie is still an open question.

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What do you think? Are Cailee Spaeny and Drew Starkey really dating, or is the Deep Cuts chemistry simply following them off screen? Share your thoughts in the comments.

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Sarah Ansari is an entertainment writer at Netflix Junkie, transitioning from four years in marketing and automotive journalism to storytelling-driven pop culture coverage. With a background in English Literature and experience writing across NFL, NASCAR, and NBA verticals, she brings a research-led, narrative-focused lens to film and television. Passionate about exploring how stories are crafted and why they resonate, Sarah unwinds through sketching, swimming, motorsports—and yearly winter Harry Potter marathons.

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